{"id":10466,"date":"2019-10-23T13:53:16","date_gmt":"2019-10-23T20:53:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jobs.azazie.com\/?p=10466"},"modified":"2019-10-23T13:53:16","modified_gmt":"2019-10-23T20:53:16","slug":"5-tips-on-how-to-give-the-perfect-maid-of-honor-speech","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/5-tips-on-how-to-give-the-perfect-maid-of-honor-speech\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Tips on How to Give the Perfect Maid of Honor Speech"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Giving a\u00a0speech is one of your most important responsibilities as the Maid of Honor. You want to make your best friend&#8217;s wedding day perfect, and she is trusting you whole-heartedly. But how do you give a Maid of Honor speech? What should you say?<\/p>\n<p>Here are 5 tips\u00a0to make your\u00a0Maid of Honor speech the best that it can be!<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_10473\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10473\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/eccp_cox149_27767606791_o.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-10473\" src=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/eccp_cox149_27767606791_o-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Bridesmaid dress, maid of honor dress, Azazie, blue dress, green dress, turquoise dress, summer wedding, bridesmaid, best friends, maid of honor speech, wedding\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/eccp_cox149_27767606791_o-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/eccp_cox149_27767606791_o-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-10473\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><a style=\"color: #999999;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.eccampbellphotography.com\/#!\/HOME\" target=\"_blank\">EC Campbell Photography<\/a><\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Dress: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/products\/azazie-amani-bridesmaid-dress?color=candy-pink&amp;from=searchrelate&amp;utm_source=organic%20blog&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=maid%20of%20honor%20speech\" target=\"_blank\">Azazie Amani<\/a> in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/search.php?q=Pool&amp;utm_source=organic%20blog&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=maid%20of%20honor%20speech\" target=\"_blank\">Pool<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Speak from the Heart<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It may seem like it would be easy to say nice things about the bride, but expressing it can sometimes be a challenge.\u00a0Remember\u00a0to speak from your heart and to be genuine. While\u00a0it is nice\u00a0to say that she is sweet and kind and funny, giving that kind of generic praise does not really capture who she is and why you care about her.\u00a0 As you begin writing your speech, take the time to reflect on your friendship and come up with stories that highlight the personality traits and characteristics that you love about her. Speaking of those good memories will help you be yourself in front of your audience and guests, and it will make your speech more heart-felt and moving.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_10470\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10470\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/alexandrajordan_1376_31269917294_o.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-10470\" src=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/alexandrajordan_1376_31269917294_o-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Bridesmaid dress, maid of honor dress, Azazie, blue dress, green dress, turquoise dress, summer wedding, bridesmaid, maid of honor speech, wedding\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/alexandrajordan_1376_31269917294_o-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/alexandrajordan_1376_31269917294_o-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-10470\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><a style=\"color: #999999;\" href=\"https:\/\/shutterfreek.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Shutterfreek Media<\/a><\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Dress: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/products\/azazie-kailyn-bridesmaid-dress?color=orchid&amp;from=search&amp;utm_source=organic%20blog&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=maid%20of%20honor%20speech\" target=\"_blank\">Azazie Kailyn<\/a> in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/search.php?q=Silver&amp;utm_source=organic%20blog&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=maid%20of%20honor%20speech\" target=\"_blank\">Silver<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Don&#8217;t Make it About Yourself<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Remember, it&#8217;s the bride and groom&#8217;s special day &#8211; keep it about them! When you tell your stories, be conscious of who the main character is. It may be helpful to go back and check how many times you said &#8220;I&#8221; and how many times you said the bride and groom&#8217;s names.\u00a0Highlight their personalities and their relationship, and do your best to keep yourself on the periphery.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_10468\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10468\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/bethandjoncastlefarmswedding-675_37604189754_o.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-10468\" src=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/bethandjoncastlefarmswedding-675_37604189754_o-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"Bridesmaid dress, maid of honor dress, Azazie, blue dress, green dress, turquoise dress, summer wedding, bridesmaid, maid of honor speech, wedding\" width=\"640\" height=\"428\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/bethandjoncastlefarmswedding-675_37604189754_o-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/bethandjoncastlefarmswedding-675_37604189754_o-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-10468\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><a style=\"color: #999999;\" href=\"https:\/\/bethjoyphotos.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Beth Joy Photography<\/a><\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Dress: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/products\/azazie-tanicia-bridesmaid-dress?color=champagne&amp;from=search&amp;utm_source=organic%20blog&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=maid%20of%20honor%20speech\" target=\"_blank\">Azazie Tanicia<\/a> in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/search.php?q=Burgundy&amp;utm_source=organic%20blog&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=maid%20of%20honor%20speech\" target=\"_blank\">Burgundy<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Remember to Smile<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It seems obvious, but a simple smile goes a long way when giving a speech. It is a welcoming gesture that brings greater enjoyment and warmth to the room. Remember to look up at the people in the room often, and look at the bride and groom whom you are speaking about. Speaking in front of people can be nerve-wracking. If you smile, it can help to lessen your nerves and make you feel more comfortable in the spotlight.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_10467\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10467\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/savage-1514_38342351836_o.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-10467\" src=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/savage-1514_38342351836_o-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"Bridesmaid dress, maid of honor dress, Azazie, blue dress, green dress, turquoise dress, summer wedding, bridesmaid, maid of honor speech, wedding\" width=\"640\" height=\"428\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/savage-1514_38342351836_o-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/savage-1514_38342351836_o-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-10467\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><a style=\"color: #999999;\" href=\"https:\/\/rachelgabrielsephotography.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Rachel Gabrielse Photography<\/a><\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Dress: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/products\/azazie-bonnie-bridesmaid-dress?color=candy-pink&amp;utm_source=organic%20blog&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=maid%20of%20honor%20speech\" target=\"_blank\">Azazie Bonnie<\/a> in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/search.php?q=Wisteria&amp;utm_source=organic%20blog&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=maid%20of%20honor%20speech\" target=\"_blank\">Wisteria<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Time it<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>There is so much you would like to say and talk about in your speech, but it is important that it doesn&#8217;t go on too long. It should really only be about 2 to 3 minutes, so make sure to time it beforehand. You may naturally speak faster when you are nervous, but try not to rush. Take a few slow breaths before you begin to calm your nerves.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Practice, Practice, Practice!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Practice makes perfect, so don&#8217;t try to wing it. Practice out loud in front of a mirror and watch for distracting habits. It is a good idea to practice with friends and family who may know the couple getting married, so they can give you feedback on the speech and your presentation. The more audiences you give\u00a0yourself beforehand, the more prepared you will feel on the day of the wedding.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_10469\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10469\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5d4a6387-shootproof_36677600280_o.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-large wp-image-10469\" src=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5d4a6387-shootproof_36677600280_o-678x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Bridesmaid dress, maid of honor dress, Azazie, blue dress, green dress, turquoise dress, summer wedding, bridesmaid, maid of honor speech, wedding\" width=\"640\" height=\"967\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5d4a6387-shootproof_36677600280_o-678x1024.jpg 678w, https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5d4a6387-shootproof_36677600280_o-199x300.jpg 199w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-10469\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><a style=\"color: #999999;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.minaretphoto.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Minaret Photography<\/a><\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>Dress: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/products\/azazie-adriana-bridesmaid-dress?color=wisteria&amp;from=search&amp;utm_source=organic%20blog&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=maid%20of%20honor%20speech\" target=\"_blank\">Azazie Adriana<\/a> in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/search.php?q=Royal%20Blue&amp;utm_source=organic%20blog&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=maid%20of%20honor%20speech\" target=\"_blank\">Royal Blue<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Best of luck on your speech!<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Still need a dress? Shop at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/?utm_source=organic%20blog&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=maid%20of%20honor%20speech\" target=\"_blank\">Azazie.com<\/a> for affordable and customizable <a href=\"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/all\/bridesmaid-dresses?utm_source=organic%20blog&amp;utm_medium=blog&amp;utm_campaign=maid%20of%20honor%20speech\" target=\"_blank\">bridesmaid dresses<\/a>!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Giving a\u00a0speech is one of your most important responsibilities as the Maid of Honor. You want to make your best friend&#8217;s wedding day perfect, and she is trusting you whole-heartedly. But how do you give a Maid of Honor speech? What should you say? Here are 5 tips\u00a0to make your\u00a0Maid of Honor speech the best that it can be! Dress: Azazie Amani in Pool 1. Speak from the Heart It may seem like it would be easy to say nice things about the bride, but expressing it can sometimes be a challenge.\u00a0Remember\u00a0to speak from your heart and to be genuine. While\u00a0it is nice\u00a0to say that she is sweet and kind and funny, giving that kind of generic praise does not really capture who she is and why you care about her.\u00a0 As you begin writing your speech, take the time to reflect on your friendship and come up with stories that highlight the personality traits and characteristics that you love about her. Speaking of those good memories will help you be yourself in front of your audience and guests, and it will make your speech more heart-felt and moving. Dress: Azazie Kailyn in Silver 2. Don&#8217;t Make it About Yourself Remember, it&#8217;s the bride and groom&#8217;s special day &#8211; keep it about them! When you tell your stories, be conscious of who the main character is. It may be helpful to go back and check how many times you said &#8220;I&#8221; and how many times you said the bride and groom&#8217;s names.\u00a0Highlight their personalities and their relationship, and do your best to keep yourself on the periphery. Dress: Azazie Tanicia in Burgundy 3. Remember to Smile It seems obvious, but a simple smile goes a long way when giving a speech. It is a welcoming gesture that brings greater enjoyment and warmth to the room. Remember to look up at the people in the room often, and look at the bride and groom whom you are speaking about. Speaking in front of people can be nerve-wracking. If you smile, it can help to lessen your nerves and make you feel more comfortable in the spotlight. Dress: Azazie Bonnie in Wisteria 4. Time it There is so much you would like to say and talk about in your speech, but it is important that it doesn&#8217;t go on too long. It should really only be about 2 to 3 minutes, so make sure to time it beforehand. You may naturally speak faster when you are nervous, but try not to rush. Take a few slow breaths before you begin to calm your nerves. 5. Practice, Practice, Practice! Practice makes perfect, so don&#8217;t try to wing it. Practice out loud in front of a mirror and watch for distracting habits. It is a good idea to practice with friends and family who may know the couple getting married, so they can give you feedback on the speech and your presentation. The more audiences you give\u00a0yourself beforehand, the more prepared you will feel on the day of the wedding. Dress: Azazie Adriana in Royal Blue Best of luck on your speech! Still need a dress? Shop at Azazie.com for affordable and customizable bridesmaid dresses!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":10488,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[770],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10466"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10466"}],"version-history":[{"count":22,"href":"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10466\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10592,"href":"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10466\/revisions\/10592"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10488"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10466"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10466"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.azazie.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10466"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}